Adolescence can be a traumatic time for the young male adolescent, and it can take a lot of courage to ask a girl out. Most young girls are just as shy as boys, and although it can seem like a huge problem, it's all part of growing up. This article will have a look at how to flirt with girls successfully.
Don't rush things
Unless you're very confident in yourself, your teenage years can be a really worrying time when trying to speak to girls. It's not unusual to feel a little shy and awkward when you're around them, but it is a normal part of growing up. Regardless of how confident your friends may seem, they will be going through the same things as you will. You probably don't know whom to ask for girls' advice, and you're obviously interested in the really pretty girls. Many boys will go online to flirt with the flirty girls who hang around in the chat rooms. This is easier because they can't see you and you can't see them, which can make it a lot easier to talk to them and get to know them. While it's not a bad way of meeting people if you're careful, it will never replace the good old-fashioned way of winning the girl of your dreams.
First things first
The first thing to do is to try and improve your confidence around girls. Remember that they can be shy too. So, if you're interested in a particular girl, let her know, be friendly, smile at her and ask her about herself. Show interest in what she has to say. Most importantly, make eye contact with her, and above all, be yourself. No girl likes a player. So, if you're not one, don't act like you are. Once you start talking, you will get to know the things that you have in common. If you have the same interests, you will find that you have many things to talk about. Girls will soon become part of your social circle and the shy awkward teenage years will be behind you. Until then, relax and be yourself - everything else will come naturally.